Recapturing Our First Love

This is the first message in the series entitled, "Rekindle Our Passion."

The first time we hear Jesus mention the church is in Matthew 16. He says, “. . . on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it” (v. 18). Why is that, you may ask? Well, He continues in v. 19: “I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.”
It is in Acts 2 that we see the workings of the Holy Spirit in the church. Now remember, this group of some 120 believers included those who were witness to Jesus’ leaving earth. They return to Jerusalem with the promise that God was going to do something. This is key because they were not sure of exactly what He would do. But they knew He always gives good and perfect gifts and that they could trust Him. So they were willing, ready, and open to whatever God would do.
READ: Acts 2:1-4
Knowing that on a regular basis we don’t have this kind of movement of God, have you wondered what the hold-up is? Is it that no longer does God care to grace His children with His presence in this way? No! Has the Holy Spirit lost the ability to show up in power? No! Or might it be that we are not ready, willing, or open to His manifest presence?
The result of the Holy Spirit’s presence was that 3,000 people were saved that day. It is as if the Holy Spirit said, “When I show up, something wonderful happens.”
Here is my dilemma: If Jesus Himself is building the church and if the Holy Spirit empowers the church, why is the church so anemic today? Where is the fire? The power? The passion? The purpose?
These are questions that I have asked myself over the last several weeks. And to be honest, I don’t have all the answers. However, I do believe that God wants to change that in our lives here at Calvary. So, starting today, we are going on a journey to “Rekindle Our Passion.” It is time to, as Paul said to the church in Corinth: “Awake to righteousness, do not sin; for some do not have the knowledge of God. I speak this to your shame” (1 Cor. 15:34).
Our journey to “Rekindle Our Passion” begins here: ‘Recapturing our First Love.’ Take your Bibles and the outline in the bulletin and let’s see how we can ‘Recapture our First Love.’
#1. Christ’s Compliments for the Church – vv. 1-3, 6
The book of Revelations is a record of a vision that the Apostle John saw while on the island of Patmos, a vision of what was to take place in the future.
At the beginning of this book, Christ dictates some letters to the seven churches, Ephesus, Smyrna, Pergamum, Thyatira, Sardis, Philadelphia, and Laodicea.
The first letter is the one we want to investigate this morning, the letter to the church in Ephesus.
In the first three verses, Christ commends the church.
First, He commends them for their deeds (works). Christ knew their hard work. But I must point out that works save neither them or us.
READ: Ephesians 2:8-9
We are saved by grace, not by works; not by good deeds. But works follow salvation. The next verse says: (READ: Eph. 2:10).
After we receive His grace, we allow Him to mold us into what He wants us to be. We become His workmanship. And as His workmanship, this verse says we are created to do good works. He makes us into a servant to do good deeds.
Then He complimented them for remaining steadfast. They had stayed the course. They had displayed patience. They had endured over a period of time.
Then in verse 3, Christ said, (READ: v. 3).
Christ commends them for persevering and enduring hardship for doing what God wanted them to do. They were commended for doing the right thing when it wasn’t always easy to do.
They were complimented for remaining steadfast.
They were also commended for opposing evil in vv. 2 & 6.
READ: vv. 2 & 6
They were commended for hating the evil practices that God hates. But notice that neither they nor God hated the Nicolaitians; they hated the practices of the Nicolaitians.
Listen closely: they didn’t give in when people cried for “tolerance” of people with “alternative lifestyles,” but they hated the practices of those people and God commended them for it.
We are called to love the person and hate evil practices. Christ commended the church for opposing evil – the church in Ephesus did not tolerate wicked men.
They also exposed false teachers (READ: v. 2). This church was able to discern whether their teachers were from God or not. They knew the Bible well enough not to be misled by false teachers. And God commended them for it.
Christ certainly complimented the church, but notice . . .
#2. Christ’s Criticism of the Church – v. 4
READ: v. 4
One commentator translates the verse this way: “You no longer love me as you once did.”
“I compliment you for your deeds, for remaining steadfast, for exposing evil, and for exposing false teachers, but there is one thing I hold against you – you no longer love me as you once did.”
What happens when you love Christ?
~ You love to think about Him.
~ You love to hear about Him.
~ You love to read about Him.
~ You love to talk about Him.
~ You love to talk to Him.
~ You love to walk with Him.

It’s worth asking, “How do I know if I’ve lost my first love?” I found this and believe it’s worth hearing:
1. When my delight in the Lord is no longer as great as my delight in someone else, I have lost my first love.

2. When my soul does not long for times of rich fellowship in God’s Word or in prayer, I have lost my first love.

3. When I claim to be "only human" and easily give in to those things I know displease the Lord, I have lost my first love.

4. When I do not willingly and cheerfully give to God’s work or to the needs of others, I have lost my first love.

5. When I view the commands of Christ as restrictions to my happiness rather than expressions of His love, I have lost my first love.

6. When I inwardly strive for the acclaim of this world rather than the approval of the Lord, I have lost my first love.

7. When I fail to make Christ or His words known because I fear rejection, I have lost my first love.

So this puts us all on the chopping block! Be honest: Haven’t there been times when you’ve loved the things of this world more than you’ve loved the Lord? Haven’t you had times when you didn’t feel like praying? Or you didn’t feel like coming to church? Haven’t you had times when you’ve strived more for the acclaim of this world rather than the acclaim of Christ? If you’re human, you have!
When love cools all these are less important.
1. Thinking about Christ is no longer as important as it once was.
2. Hearing about Christ is no longer as important as it once was.
3. When your love for Christ cools, reading about Him is not as important as it once was.
4. Talking about Christ is no longer as important as it once was.
5. Talking to Him is no longer as important as it once was.
6. Church services are only a habit.
7. The Bible is neglected. Prayer becomes but a form.
8. Service is mechanical.
9. Witnessing ceases.
10. When you lose your first love for Christ, He becomes less important than He once was.
Christ complimented the church for their good deeds, but He criticized them for doing so with no true love for Christ. So now, notice. . .
#3. Christ’s Cure for the Church – v. 5
READ: v. 5
Remember the height from which you have fallen!
Remember how you felt when you were first saved, when you baptized. Remember how grateful you were for your eternal life. How grateful you were for the forgiveness of your sins. How grateful you were for peace in your life.
Remember who you were when Christ found you. Remember what kind of person you were. Remember the direction your life was headed. Consider where you would be today if you had not been saved.
Not only does He tell us to remember, but He also tells us to repent – turn around your behavior and thinking.
The word ‘repent’ is the Greek word: ‘metanoeo’ – which means to “rethink, or reconsider.”
Remember your first love, rethink your current love; and then change your current love to reflect your first love. REPENT!
We get that love back by remembering, repenting and then returning.
Return to your first love of Jesus! Return to the way that you served Him when you first came to Him! Serve the Lord with joy and gladness.

CONCLUSION:
Jesus taught that love for God is the greatest commandment. We are to love Him with all (not some) of our heart and with all of our soul (not some) and with all of our mind (not some). Do we love God with every ounce of our heart, soul and mind? How often do you think of God in one day? We should be in constant communication with God. We should seek His will in everything that we do, every second of the day. He should be in our thoughts constantly. Our soul and spirit should be praising Him constantly. This is the true first love. We are also to love everyone. Do we show this love to everyone? Sometimes we don’t even show it to others in our own church.
We need to get out of the business of religion and return to our first love. We need to really start praising God in our churches. We go through the motions, but our hearts are not in it, because we are afraid we might go against traditions. We don’t come to church for traditions. We should be coming to church to praise and worship our Lord with all of our soul and spirit. We need to let the Holy Spirit lead us in worship. People, let’s get out of the religion business and return to our first love and really praise and worship our Lord and Savior.
If you are here today and you have forsaken your first love, come to the altar and humble yourself on your knees before God and repent.

If you are here today and you don’t know Jesus has your savior, then you are missing out on eternal life in heaven. You do have eternal life without Him, but it will be in Hell where you will be in torment constantly for eternity. The choice is yours. Jesus loves you and He suffered and died on the cross for your sins because He loves you. He arose on the third day where He sits at the right hand of God the Father, waiting for you to call upon His name. Come now and accept Christ as you Savior and Lord. Ask Him to forgive you of your sins and repent of those sins. He will help you to change your life and to turn away from whatever sins you are involved in. You haven’t done anything that Jesus won’t forgive. Come now and have assurance that you will spend eternity in Heaven. Your life here on earth will change too. It will be full with the first love that we have been talking about tonight. It is a love for Christ that will change your life for the best. Come now.